Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Wait List Update!




February update puts us at #41!!  



I often get the question "Are you anxious about the wait? It must be hard."  My response (as of now) is... We are trying to not get over anxious about the wait right now because it is what we expected.  Naturally, we are very excited and can't wait for that super special day we receive our referral!  But, getting over anxious is not going to speed things up.  It just feels like forever away if we look at the how many months we have yet to wait.  I'm sure as time gets closer we will start to feel more impatient for that moment, but for now, we are keeping busy, patiently waiting and watching the number go down at every monthly update we get from our agency.  We will see how long this lasts ;-)

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Q & A

I love that our agency sends out Q & A emails to answer common questions.  Not only for those of us going through the process and those who are thinking about the process, but common questions that we get from curious friends and family as well. I thought I would start sharing some of those.  Also, please feel free to ask any questions your curious about too. We are happy to answer the best we can. That's one reason for this blog...to educate and share about adoption and about the beautiful country our baby girl is coming from.

Today's Q & A...

Q~ Some people wonder what kind of care children get while in orphanages in Ethiopia or what the social experience of the children in Ethiopia is like?

A~ The children in the orphanages receive excellent care. Infants and small children are out of their cribs and with the caregivers as much as possible. Older children have a great deal of interaction with the caregivers and with each other.

This is one thing that personally stood out for Ryan and I as we did research and learned about Ethiopia, as we watched others personal videos and read others story. The love the care givers show towards the children really touched us. As well as the love the older children have for each other. We are looking forward to experiencing this first hand in our travels there <3


Monday, January 7, 2013

Melkam Genna!

Melkam Genna!  

January 7th is Ethiopian Christmas 



 CHRISTMAS IN ETHIOPIA


Ethiopia (and especially the Ethiopian Orthodox Church) still use the old Julian calendar, so they celebrate Christmas on January 7th, not December 25th! The Christmas celebration in the Ethiopian Orthodox Church is called Ganna. Most people go to Church on Christmas day.
Many people fast (don't eat anything) on Christmas Eve (January 6th). At dawn on the morning of Ganna, people get dressed in white. Most people wear a traditional garment called a shamma. It's a thin white cotton piece of cloth with brightly colored stripes across the ends. It's worn like a toga. If you live in a big town or city you might wear 'western' clothes. The early Ganna mass starts at 4.00am!
The Ethiopian capital city is Addis Ababa. It's a modern city. Most people who live outside big cities live in round house made of mud-plastered walls which have thatched cone-shaped roofs. Sometimes houses in the country are rectangular and made of stone.
The design of Ethiopian Church is similar to the houses. In the country, they are often very old and have been carved out of rock. In cities, modern churches are built in three circles, each within the others.
The choir sings from the outer circle. Everyone who goes to church for the Ganna celebrations is given a candle. The people walk around the church three times in a solemn procession, holding the candles. They then go to the second circle to stand during the service. The men and boys are separated from the women and girls. The center circle is the most important and holy place in the church and is where the priest serves the Holy Communion or mass.
It's also a tradition that one of the Wise Men who visited Jesus came from Ethiopia.
Around the time of Ganna, the men and boys play a game that is also called ganna. It's played with a curved stick and a round wooden ball, a bit like hockey.
Traditional Christmas foods in Ethiopia include wat which is a thick and spicy stew that contains meat, vegetables and sometimes eggs (sounds yummy!). Wat is eaten on a 'plate of injera' - a flat bread. Pieces of the injera are used as an edible spoon to scoop up the wat.
Twelve days after Ganna, on 19th January, Ethiopians start the three day celebration of Timkat. It celebrated the baptism of Jesus. Children walk to church services in a procession. They wear the crowns and robes of the church youth groups that they belong to. Adults wear the shamma. The priests wear red and white robes and carry embroidered fringed umbrellas.
Musical instruments are played during the Timkat procession. The sistrum is a percussion instrument with tinkling metal disks a bit like a vertical tambourine. A makamiya, a long T-shaped prayer stick is used to keep the rhythm and is also used by the priests and a stick to lean on during the long Timkat church service!
Ethiopian men also play a sport called yeferas guks. It's played on horseback and the men throw ceremonial lances at each other (sounds rather dangerous!).
People don't give and receive present during Ganna and Timkat. Sometimes children might be given a small gift of some clothes from their family members. It's more a time for going to church, eating lots and playing games!

Happy New Year!

The New Year puts us up one spot to #44 on the list.  Not to bad for just getting on the list a few weeks ago.  At least it went down ;-) 

We had a fabulous Christmas and hope everyone did too!  We enjoyed surprising family with our Kratzer Adoption Shirts.  It was such a great feeling to see them all wearing them and supporting us.



It would be so amazing to have our baby girl home for Christmas of 2013.  With a 7-9 month "estimated" wait time for referral and 4-6 months "estimated" time after that for court dates and such, we are aware that it may not happen.  Many things have to go quickly and smoothly (which is rare in adoptions).  BUT, there is nothing wrong with praying that maybe it will turn out that way. 

Keep us in your prayers :-)

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

While We Anxiously Wait

In the coming months, while we anxiously wait for our referral we will be focusing on educating ourselves more on Ethiopia and adjustment for our new arrival.  We will also be organizing some fundraising events to help fund our adoption.  Fundraising will be a big part of helping us in bringing our baby girl home.  We are truly blessed with many amazing people in our lives who ask how they can help.  We have had some who donated to us already and have had one successful fundraiser so far.  Our amazing friend Stacey M. hosted a "Thirty One" party some months back and offered a percentage of my sales.  We made nearly $300!!  That was amazing.  We can not thank her enough for taking the time to do this for us.

Here is a run down of what we have been doing and what are in the works...

Just Love ~ We found this amazing company called "Just Love Coffee".  This is an amazing company that has a passion for coffee and helping people raise money for things such as adoption.  So we have created a store front for you to order yummy coffee that can be delivered right to your house and every bag you purchase proceeds goes to our adoption.  You can shop at our storefront HERE or by clicking on the "Just Love" link on the side bar. 

Adoption T-Shirts ~ We are also very excited to give you a sneak peek of our personalized Kratzer Adoption T-shirts that Ryan and I designed ourselves.  I have become friends with a great guy who owns Steve Costume Signs in Saline.  I work with him on CL's school spirit wear, they do great work and will be doing the printing for our shirts.  We will be taking orders for the shirts in late January early February.





Some fun events in the works that we are really excited about and hope you will join us!
  • Family Bowling Event
  • Euchre Party
  • Photography Session Promotions with Yours Truly :-)
Again,  thank you for following us on our amazing adoption journey. 
Thank You and God Bless...XO



Finally a Waiting Family!!


Finally a much needed update!!  Sorry it has been awhile.  We have spent the past months preparing documents for our Dossier.  If you have gone through an adoption you know very well.  If not, let me just share with you...A LOT OF PAPER WORK, Dr. appointments, finger prints, personal referral letters, passports and on and on :-)  I must say, although it took some time to gather it all, it went pretty smooth.  For me, it was more the anxiety of making sure everything was done right.  It can be overwhelming to have a list of requirements and a stack of documents in front of you and just hope you did not miss anything.  Especially anything that may take some time to get.  All went well though and we only needed to fix some small things PHEW!

The Great News...We are finally a waiting family!! WhooHoo!!  Our Dossier was sent to Ethiopia on December 12th.  We are #45 on the list.  The estimated wait time for us is 7-9 months.  It sounds funny but we are so excited to be waiting "officially".  It seems so far away, but in reality time goes by so quickly and CL keeps us busy so it will probably be here before we know it.  We are filled with so much excitement and butterflies just thinking of the moment that we get a referral.

I will do much better in posting in our blog in the coming months.  We are thrilled to share our journey with you!!



Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Terms and Process...

We are often asked about our process and time frame of our adoption.  Quick and easy answer...lots of paper work and waiting :-) As we post to update you on our journey you will hear us use some terms that are most likely unfamiliar to you.  Here is a quick overview of the process, along with some common terms you will come across.  I will try my best to stay on top of explaining different things as they come up along the way.

*Home Study* ~ A detailed written report of our family compiled and prepared by a social worker.

*Dossier* ~ The set of documents that we prepare and send to Ethiopia to be put on the waiting list.

*USCIS* ~ United States Customs and Immigration Services - they will help us obtain a Visa to bring our child home. Also approve us by the US gov't to adopt.

*Referral* ~ The photo and information on our child that we will receive several months after we've been on the waiting list. This is when we find out who our little one is!

~First Trip to Ethiopia~ where we will accept parental rights and be declared her parents by the Ethiopian government.

~US Embassy appointment~ where the US Government must agree that we are her parents and she can come home with us.

~Second trip to Ethiopia~ When we bring our new baby home!! YAY!!

Hope that is helpful!